barbaraharcavimodelingChildren react to parents“We think that children act, whereas what they mostly do is react”. (Dr. Gabor Maté) Our children react to the way we speak to them, to...
barbaraharcaviconsequencesTime-Out?Mommy / Daddy, when you put me in time-out I feel so lonely…..I feel alone in the whole world, because YOU are MY WORLD, and when you...
barbaraharcavipunishmentRewards are the same as PunishmentsHow do I teach my child to not hit his little brother, to tidy up after she made a mess, to speak respectfully, to just listen to me, to...
barbaraharcavitoddlerHelp! My Toddler is BitingFIRST: Make sure there is no underlying condition like a speech delay, a developmental delay, SPD, or just teething and gum sensitivity....
barbaraharcaviself-esteemStop making Children feel Bad"You can't teach children to behave better by making them feel worse. When Children feel better, they behave better”. (Pam Leo) So many...
barbaraharcavichoiceTime Out?Mommy / Daddy, when you put me in time-out I feel so lonely….. I feel alone in the whole world, because YOU are MY WORLD, and when you...
barbaraharcavimodelingHelp! My Child is Cursing!4 steps to stop my child from swearing: Lets realize that even if its hideous (or terribly embarrassing or annoying), we have...
barbaraharcavichoiceCrime and Punishment“Stop”!, “What was she thinking”?, “He deserves to be punished!”… Sometimes children just have to “learn the lesson”… But what “lesson”...