barbaraharcaviWhat is damaging to your relationship?The Gottman Institute identified 4 communication styles, that are extremely damaging to relationships, and actually predict with great...
barbaraharcaviThe Quality of our Relationships“The Harvard Grant Study – The longest longitudinal study ever undertaken (for more than 75 years) – concludes that the key to a happier...
barbaraharcaviParenting DifferencesAll parents have parenting differences. A few guidelines on how to restrain those sometimes-complex situations: My favorite rule is “one...
barbaraharcaviWhich kind of partner are you?"Be the kind of partner you want your kid to have as their own partner one day" is probably the best advice I received from my own...
barbaraharcaviDo the best you can!Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better” Maya Angelou Parenting is a process, a very long journey...
barbaraharcaviHow do I parent my teenager??Parents of teens sometimes feel confused, helpless, or “what used to work, doesn’t work anymore….”!! We definitely need to recalculate...
barbaraharcaviLet's get married“Let's get married and have kids so instead of a lazy Saturday morning we can panic because a sports uniform didn't get put in the...
barbaraharcaviWhat you focus on growsYour child is a “fussy” eater… Focus on what he DOES eat and the few things he does ENJOY eating. Your children fight “all the time”…...
barbaraharcaviQuality TimeLots of parenting experts use the term "quality time" or “one-on-one dates” with children… But instead of taking your child once a week...
barbaraharcaviFor Things to Change, YOU must Change Yes making changes in your parenting IS HARD WORK, but it will be beneficial on the long run. Parenting is taking care of “the long run”...
barbaraharcaviFive interesting Facts about my work as an Adlerian Parenting Coach:1. MEN particularly connect to the Adlerian approach, because it’s a very practical and logical method, with lots of explanations on how...
barbaraharcaviHow does your Child feel at Home?“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”. Maya Angelou...
barbaraharcaviWhat can you do NOW for your Teenager?“One day your child will make a mistake or a bad choice and run to you, instead of away from you, and in that moment you will know the...
barbaraharcaviPrepare your Child for LifeWe cannot protect our children from life. Therefore, it is essential that we prepare them for it – Rudolf Dreikurs How do I “prepare my...
barbaraharcaviEmphasize the PositiveWhen you keep criticizing your kids, they don’t stop loving you, they stop loving themselves. According to the Adlerian theory criticism...