barbaraharcaviStop making Children feel Bad"You can't teach children to behave better by making them feel worse. When Children feel better, they behave better”. (Pam Leo) So many...
barbaraharcaviHow do I parent my teenager??Parents of teens sometimes feel confused, helpless, or “what used to work, doesn’t work anymore….”!! We definitely need to recalculate...
barbaraharcaviThe 2 buckets of our childrenBefore becoming a psychotherapist, Alfred Adler was a medical doctor that firmly believed in PREVENTION (instead of TREATMENT). Adlerian...
barbaraharcaviFor Things to Change, YOU must Change Yes making changes in your parenting IS HARD WORK, but it will be beneficial on the long run. Parenting is taking care of “the long run”...
barbaraharcaviHow can we increase our Children's Resilience?“Just when the caterpillar thought her life was over, she began to fly”…. I hear lots of parents talk about the fact that, after...
barbaraharcaviIs it time to ditch the Diapers? 4 tips: 1. READINESS – We start the process of potty training when OUR CHILD is ready (and not when WE think it’s a good time). How do we...
barbaraharcaviFocus on what you can control – YOURSELF!Remember, you can always control YOUR RESPONSE to a situation, or to your child. How? By preparing ahead of time! 1. Prepare YOUR CHILD...
barbaraharcaviAllow your Children to failIt is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings....
barbaraharcaviTime Out?Mommy / Daddy, when you put me in time-out I feel so lonely….. I feel alone in the whole world, because YOU are MY WORLD, and when you...
barbaraharcaviHelp! My Child is Cursing!4 steps to stop my child from swearing: Lets realize that even if its hideous (or terribly embarrassing or annoying), we have...
barbaraharcaviCrime and Punishment“Stop”!, “What was she thinking”?, “He deserves to be punished!”… Sometimes children just have to “learn the lesson”… But what “lesson”...